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<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title>Ron and Robert on Divorce - Latest Comments</title><link xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="http://api.friendfeed.com/2008/03#sup" href="http://disqus.com/sup/all.sup#forumcomments-dd5b397f" type="application/json"/><link>http://ronandrobert.disqus.com/</link><description></description><atom:link href="http://ronandrobert.disqus.com/comments.rss" rel="self"></atom:link><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Sun, 13 May 2012 22:52:16 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: Free Divorce Workshop</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/free-divorce-workshop-2/#comment-528216084</link><description>&lt;p&gt;complete and informative&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Kisheya2000</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2012 22:52:16 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Free Divorce Workshop</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/free-divorce-workshop-2/#comment-527290795</link><description>&lt;p&gt;This one is great&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Martin Lartern</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 12 May 2012 12:58:19 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Free Divorce Workshop</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/free-divorce-workshop-2/#comment-527028157</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Freedom is in Risktaking: When you are challenged, you either take on the challenge, which then expands your comfort zone and creates a whole new level of confidence; or you resort to your comfort zone, causing it to shrink, thereby constraining you to a smaller wiggling room. I will challenge my divorced husband for his infidelity relationship with women in my family, a sex out of marriage with my close people. Mental illness of him asked for challenge.Michelle Daneshrad&lt;br&gt;COLLABORATIVE LAW COMPLETION LAW FIRM&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Comppletionlawfirm</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 12 May 2012 00:59:24 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Psycho Ex-Wife Has A Selfish Ex-Husband</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/psycho-ex-wife-selfish-ex-husband/#comment-331355881</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I'm still waiting for the video to buffer, but there are libel laws. They seem applicable here.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">carrollstraus</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 10 Oct 2011 21:53:14 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Healers of Conflict</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/healers-of-conflict/#comment-303078517</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you Ron, I will be in the next conference. I asked this from a professional. father, my ex, was mentally deviated man having sex with my family members when i was married, BTW, You will not believe this. Werner hugged me and kissed me and told me that I Am a Warrior!!! I will never forget this for the rest of my life.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Michelle Daneshrad</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 Sep 2011 15:35:47 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Psycho Ex-Wife Has A Selfish Ex-Husband</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/psycho-ex-wife-selfish-ex-husband/#comment-297371813</link><description>&lt;p&gt;An anonymous site is very different from a public site. The real tragedy here is the pain inflicted on the children. That is what is so very frustrating and upsetting. As someone with personal experience here, what do you suggest to help parents protect their children from a mentally ill other parent, without causing additional damage?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Ron and Robert on Divorce</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 28 Aug 2011 18:47:03 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Psycho Ex-Wife Has A Selfish Ex-Husband</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/psycho-ex-wife-selfish-ex-husband/#comment-297370061</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Clearly I don't. It sounds awful. I hope that you are able to find the support you need and I hope your children are able to get the support that they need as well, from a healing, loving, peaceful source.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Ron and Robert on Divorce</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 28 Aug 2011 18:43:35 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Psycho Ex-Wife Has A Selfish Ex-Husband</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/psycho-ex-wife-selfish-ex-husband/#comment-296906641</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Therapist can only do so much. I had to start my own support group and even that's not sufficient. This website is a godsend for all those suffering similar conditions. It's a community that lets you vent, get helpful ideas and ways to cope and know you are not alone. And by the way, our psycho ex tortures the children until they refuse to go to court ordered therapy. So much for that idea. You have no idea what kind of hell we are living. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Womanwhoknows</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Aug 2011 21:57:29 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Psycho Ex-Wife Has A Selfish Ex-Husband</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/psycho-ex-wife-selfish-ex-husband/#comment-296904653</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Spoken like someone who has never had to deal with their own psycho ex wife. Anthony Morelli put the site up anonymously. It was his ex wife who found out about it and showed it to the kids. Typical behavior of a psycho ex. When you've walked a few miles in his and my shoes, then you can pass judgment. Thanks to the ex, the kids are dealing with a whole lot worse than the website, believe me! &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Womanwhoknows</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Aug 2011 21:53:06 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Psycho Ex-Wife Has A Selfish Ex-Husband</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/psycho-ex-wife-selfish-ex-husband/#comment-294495033</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I understand a person's need to stay positive through a "personal hell", but that work is best done in the privacy of a therapists office, not in a public forum available for the person's young child to view at will. Kids are kids - it is cruel to burden them with the problems of adults. If the child needs help dealing with a mentally ill parent, they should be in therapy as well - not exposed to the healthy parent's personal hell. That is equally damaging. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Ron and Robert on Divorce</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Aug 2011 12:50:55 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Psycho Ex-Wife Has A Selfish Ex-Husband</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/psycho-ex-wife-selfish-ex-husband/#comment-294439671</link><description>&lt;p&gt;As a person who is also dealing with a psycho ex-wife and is constantly amazed at the way our courts continue to let her skate, I found this blog EXTREMELY helpful!  Unfortunately most people that have not had a spouse with a VERIFIED mental illness do not understand this at all.  I do not agree that this man is selfish I believe that he is trying his best to stay positive through his hell.........and trust me someone with BPD is truly satan.  A person with BPD considers only themselves and never once will consider the effects on children, their family, your family and least of all the person that they have to "beat".  Unfortunately the children do need to be informed of this behavior because they will also be victim to it as they grow older but I believe that they realize that something is "wrong" with mom at an early age.  Touching, hugging and kissing is not natural for someone with BPD and is only used in front of other people to emulate a loving, caring relationship.  NOTHING is done with feeling because a person BPD is incapable of any emotion except anger. Anthony, I truly hope that your blog will continue you have helped me and my family through some very rough times in dealing with the exact same situation.  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Gotonniego</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Aug 2011 11:32:50 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Delicious Wine, Great Information</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/delicious-wine-great-information/#comment-290407724</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Who is that gorgeous lady on the left here? &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Guest</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2011 17:48:37 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Delicious Wine, Great Information</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/delicious-wine-great-information/#comment-289582301</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Those stuffed mushrooms and the Manchego cheese nearly killed me. In a good way. I also got a lot out of the seminar - I can't wait to invest in some real estate!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Patricia Frost</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 17 Aug 2011 18:57:34 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Delicious Wine, Great Information</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/delicious-wine-great-information/#comment-289567206</link><description>&lt;p&gt;My thanks to Irene and Dvir for the useful information and the GREAT ravioli! &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Ty</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 17 Aug 2011 18:38:39 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Healers of Conflict</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/healers-of-conflict/#comment-282540214</link><description>&lt;p&gt;This is an excellent question, Michelle. It is best asked of an experienced, licensed mental health professional. If you seek assistance from a mental health professional about this concern, you will learn much that will enrich your professional practice.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Ron and Robert on Divorce</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 14:26:11 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Healers of Conflict</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/healers-of-conflict/#comment-282539851</link><description>&lt;p&gt;This is an excellent question, Michelle. It is best asked of an experienced, licensed mental health professional. If you seek assistance from a mental health professional about this concern, you will learn much that will enrich your professional practice.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Ron and Robert on Divorce</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 14:25:46 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Register Now: Wine Tasting and Real Estate</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/register-now-wine-tasting-and-real-estate/#comment-280577706</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you! Please feel free to add us to your RSS feed. We appreciate your support.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Ron and Robert on Divorce</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 08 Aug 2011 14:14:07 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Top 5 Reasons to have a Collaborative Divorce After 50</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/top-5-reasons-to-divorce-collaboratively-after-50/#comment-280577249</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you! We appreciate your kind words and continued support. :-)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Ron and Robert on Divorce</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 08 Aug 2011 14:13:29 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Healers of Conflict</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/healers-of-conflict/#comment-279588427</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Michelle Daneshrad What is the best way for the parent who idolized the child to now deal with the Narcisisstic Adult child? could it be beacuae the father was narcisisstic doctor with god complex and sexual deviations?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Michelle Danesharad</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 06 Aug 2011 23:58:42 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Healers of Conflict</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/healers-of-conflict/#comment-279587852</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Michelle Daneshrad: What is the best way for the parent who idolized the child to now deal with the Narcisisstic Adult child? Could it be because his father was narcisisstic doctor with god complex and sexual deviation?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Michelle Daneshrad</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 06 Aug 2011 23:56:19 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Register Now: Wine Tasting and Real Estate</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/register-now-wine-tasting-and-real-estate/#comment-272710902</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Your post is&lt;br&gt;  rocking and knowledgeable… I really appreciate the way you write . I would&lt;br&gt;  like to read more from you&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Orange county property</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 01 Aug 2011 09:00:34 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: It All Adds Up, Know Your CDFA &amp;#8211; Irene Smith, CPA, CDFA</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/it-all-adds-up-know-your-cdfa-irene-smith-cpa-cdfa/#comment-265844435</link><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Our &lt;a href="http://www.free-links-lawyers.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;free lawyer directory&lt;/a&gt;, allows the listing of Certified Divorce Financial Analyst firms or you can &lt;a href="http://www.free-links-lawyers.com/submit_article.php?c=3787" rel="nofollow"&gt;submit law articles&lt;/a&gt; related to financial matters in divorce (no cost).&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">free_links_lawyers</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jul 2011 17:08:17 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Winning Is A Losing Battle</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/winning-is-a-losing-battle/#comment-261131486</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I explore this and related topics about intimacy and flourishing at greater length and in more detail in the recently published The Art of Flourishing: A New East-West Approach to Staying Sane and Finding Love in an Insane World (Crown, 2011).&lt;br&gt;Jeffrey B. Rubin, Ph.D. (&lt;a href="http://drjeffreyrubin.com" rel="nofollow"&gt;drjeffreyrubin.com&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Jeffreyrubin</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 22 Jul 2011 14:29:41 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Top 5 Reasons to have a Collaborative Divorce After 50</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/top-5-reasons-to-divorce-collaboratively-after-50/#comment-214903722</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you! We are glad you enjoyed this article.&lt;br&gt;________________________________________&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Ron and Robert on Divorce</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2011 13:27:54 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Top 5 Reasons to have a Collaborative Divorce After 50</title><link>http://ronandrobertondivorce.com/top-5-reasons-to-divorce-collaboratively-after-50/#comment-214206787</link><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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